When I first met my boyfriend, I never thought I would ever be in love. I knew what love was but never knew you could be in love with every little imperfection of someone. As we grew in our relationship, I began to learn everything about him and what made him,him. The things that made him himself made me continue to grow in love with him. As we continue our relationship, I grow more in love with him every second of every day. Earlier this week, I wrote down my insight of being in love, here it is. Love is fragile, love is rough. Love is a fight but most of the time it’s a breeze. When I hear the word love, I think of many things. I think of my love for the simple things such as sunsets, puppies, etc. I even think of the more complex things such as love for my friends and family. Being in love is the most complex of them all. Being in love with someone is a fight but it is a fight that you will never lose if you are fully committed. It is never a weight on your shoulder. Being in love is adoring that person and wanting to know their passions, dreams, interests, and inspirations. It is looking at every imperfection they have and turning it into a imperfectly perfect characteristic. It is looking into his eyes and seeing what it would be like to look into his eyes every day and night. Looking into his eyes and seeing the faces of your kids, the color of your dream house, etc. It is meeting his parents and thanking them for raising such a gentleman. Love is worry, it is kissing him goodbye and praying that he makes him home so he can always be here with you. It is the fear of losing him and tears begin to come to your eyes. It is thinking of losing him and getting a hopeless feeling in your
heart. Love is also faith. It is trusting in his words. It is trusting in his actions. It is trusting that God will lead you both on the right path for the both of you, no matter what the circumstance is. Love is many things, it is a roller coaster that never stops. It has it’s downs, ups, left turns, right turns, loops, and can sometimes be completely upside down. The last thing it is, is a journey. It is a journey that has a different adventure each and every day. All of these things make up the commitment of marriage when the time for the two of you is perfect.I am so happy to be in a relationship that is a never- ending journey of falling even harder for him than I did the day before. I love you Cam